Katie Frost enjoys watching her siblings perform in the marching band. |
Her mother Sue says she uses short term stays
at the NEPC to balance the needs of all four children: Andrew, 18 Katie, 16,
Emily,15 and Carly,10.
Doctors told the
family Katie would not survive after being born with fluid on the brain, but
after multiple shunt revisions she is able to live in the family home. However, she experiences frequent seizures,
is non-ambulatory and totally dependent on others for everything.
The Frosts included
Katie in all her siblings activities, but as she grew it became a challenge to
transport her and she was sensitive to some environments. There were conflicts, too. Someone had to
stay behind when Andrew and Em’s marching band performed at Disneyworld,
because Katie can’t fly; family vacations in Ocean City
had to be put on hold, because Katie can’t tolerate the sound of surf.
Then a family friend
volunteered at NEPC and discovered short term stays. The family applied and
discovered that Katie enjoyed her short “vacations” complete with a swimming
pool and a staff attuned to her special needs.
“It’s her time,”
said her mother. “When she’s there we do things she can’t do.”
So when Andrew went
off to college this year, both parents attended the orientation. When husband Matt went on a business trip, a
short term stay made life manageable for Sue, Emily and Carly.
“We all love having
Katie home. . .but I can’t do the same things now that I did at 35. We are so lucky we have this.”